Most people will plan out their home and decorating style to the T. Everything from where to put specific pieces, to what color or style theme they want to go with and what kinds of plates they want on their table. However, most of them don't really realize how difficult it is to find tabletop accessories - especially if your family is like mine! Everyone always ends up in the kitchen or at the table for some reason! Sometimes people get "stage fright" that what they put on their table is going to be gawked at or made fun of.
Frankly, I don't think you should care what anyone says about your tabletop accessories choices, but if you really feel like you need to stick to the normal also allowing yourself to add a small touch of panache here and there - then so be it! There are all kinds of choices when it comes to tabletop accessories for you normal folks (and for us funky folks too) such as beverage dispensers for water, wine decanters or other drinks, different kinds of napkins and matching rings and also different kinds of candle holders.
All of these options are going to come in different styles, shapes, sizes and colors. If you want to subdue the colors and shapes you can do this as well by picking out conventional options along with natural and light colors and shapes! For the funky people, you can choose all the same stuff, but you can choose some really crazy shapes and colors. This is really going to bring your table to people's attention - so make sure you really want it!